Sunday, August 25, 2013

Sister Barbara Winkie and Sister Voncile Hunt
It has been a long time since I have posted on my blog.  Let's just say I was distracted by some health issues and I am feeling much better now.  I have not in any way neglected my mission duties but I have been very tired when home so I didn't write.  

The picture at my left is one of me and Sister Hunt who is the sister from Liberty Stake back home.  If you remember from a previous blog I met Sister Hunt while doing our laundry.  We suddenly realized we were in the group of 3 sisters that our stake presidency wanted to see early one Sunday morning.  At that time President Morgan invited all three of us to serve a mission.  None of us knew each other at the time.  All from different church congregations.  After meeting in the laundry room we became friends.  Sister Hunt was a member of the Mission Sister's Choir and I enjoyed seeing her up front when the sisters performed.  She is leaving to go home this Thursday so we made one last excursion together.  As she had never been to the Mount Timpanogos Temple we went there together yesterday.  It was a beautiful day for the 45 minute drive to this very lovely temple.  I think it is becoming one of my favorite temples.  You wouldn't believe how packed the temple was!  We couldn't find a parking space and had to park on the street the farthest distance from the temple.  Every time I attend the temple I am amazed at the number of people and YOUNG COUPLES that are there.  Hope for our future is in our young.  

I wanted a picture of us together by the temple but my camera had to be left in my van and it was a long walk to the van and back to the temple so we didn't do that.  When we were walking together though the nice "backyard" area of our apartments I spotted a young elder and I asked if he would be willing to take a moment and snap a picture of us.  I think it turned out rather nice.  Hope President Morgan enjoys seeing us together on our missions.  It is a wonderful mission and we need many more to come to the Church and Family History Headquarters Mission.  Put in your papers now.  The Lord needs willing hearts, hands and minds.  I promise you many blessings.

Brother Doug Perry and Sister Janice Kapp Perry
Last evening me and three other sister's attended a picnic for the FamilySearch Missionaries of whom I am one.  There were so many there and we absolutely filled the stake center cultural hall.  It was held in Centerville, Utah.  Persons with last names at the first part of the alphabet brought salads and the last end of alphabet brought desserts.  The hosting group providing pulled port and buns.  The tables were loaded and everyone must have tried to outdo another.  Everything I selected was wonderful.  After we pigged out and enjoyed conversation we cleaned us so we could go into the chapel. 

 I was one of the first in the chapel where our featured speaker was Janice Kapp Perry.  I had the good fortune to have a few minutes to chat with her and her husband.  What marvelous people they are.  They have been married since 1958 and have served a full time mission to Santiago, Chili.  He is a linguist who majored in Russian in college but who speaks many languages.  What a delight to have them speak and perform for us.  She even had the audience sing a group of her songs while she conducted.  We sang "As Sister of Zion" and it sounded so nice.  Sister Perry told a story about Sister Camille Kimbal that I want to remember.  She said she had known Sister Kimball for many years and she wondered how she was doing being alone since President Kimball died.  There came an occasion where they were both attending some event.  Sister Kimball came in using a walker and oxygen.  It was Sister's Perry pleasure that that were assigned seats next to each other.  Sister Perry inquired about what Sister Kimball was doing to fill her time since she was now alone.  Sister Kimball them told her that she was now taking oil painting lessons.  She said the artist came to her home to teach her and that she was working to paint the scene she sees from a window where she resided.  Her goal was to paint a picture of each of the four seasons.  Sister Perry wondered if Sister Kimball had reached her goal prior to her own death.  That answer came when a friend of Sister Perry's told her that she was close to the Kimball children and she was happy to report that each child had a beautiful framed painting hanging in their home-painted by their mother.  Each had one of the four seasons.  What a lovely story about one of the most admired women I know.  I was blessed to meet Sister Camille Kimbal when we lived in Korea.  My dear friend, Wendy Jarvis, and I had done something for Sister Kimbal and we even were able to give her a kiss on the cheek.  Wendy and I both savor that memory.

Sister Janet Freeman, me, and Sister Dianne Bignell
This picture is of me and two very important sisters from my zone.  When I first arrived in the Data Quality Zone I was absolutely GREEN.  I knew nothing!  Sister Bignell was assigned to be my trainer.  She was so patient and kind.  She taught me well and soon (about two weeks) I was on my own.  Sister Bignell was always there when I had issues (and I did often).  Sister Freeman was assigned to be my trainer when I was moved to a new area (same huge space) to do a different job.  I love both of these sisters for their kindness and patience with.  They were the sisters that invited me to the picnic.  Sister McKnight went with us.  She and I are still buddys.  She a great support during my health issue. I will end my blog here as I need to get my rest and get ready for another work week.

I look forward to next weekend as my son, Robb, will be bringing his son, Daniel to the Missionary Training Center.  Dan will be serving in the Provo, Utah Mission.  I will be able to visit with them until Dan enters the MTC on Wednesday morning.  Robb's wife, Julie, will be with them.  I may not blog next week as I will be so busy.  Until next time may God bless you all and be happy!

Sunday, July 21, 2013

Good evening everyone.  Here I am standing in the living room of Roger and Beth Cluff in Cedar Hills, Utah.  Bishop Cluff was our Bishop in 5th Ward in Las Cruces, New Mexico.  He certainly was the best bishop anyone could ask for.  They moved to Utah a few years ago and are doing well.  I went to my brother, Art's, home Saturday morning and then we went to the Cluff's home.  The purpose was for Art and Bishop Cluff to give me a priesthood blessing.  It seems I have one of the symptoms of aging with degeneration of two disks in my lower back.  This is causing a pinching of my sciatic nerves going down both legs.  I had a MRI and back xrays last week and the orthopedic doctor has referred me to a pain clinic.  I thought a blessing was in order before this appointment in early August.  I am so glad to have a brother who is a worthy priesthood holder and a former bishop that I love and admire give me this blessing.  Thank you Art and Bishop Cluff.  After the blessing we visited for awhile and then said our good byes.
I don't know when I will see the Cluffs again.  I hope it is soon.  I will see Art and his family again fairly soon and we are planning a trip to the Manti Temple some time in the near future.

On Saturday evening my friends and I went to the Conference Center for the Mormon Tabernacle Choir's Pioneer Concert.  Guest artists were Nathan Pacheco and Lindsey Stirling. Nathan is a "rising star in the world of classical crossover music."  What a powerful and beautiful voice.  So much talent!  Lindsey began with 12 years of classical violin lessons and played in a rock band.  She now is really popular on YouTube "with all her videos on Lindseystomp YouTube channel, which rings in at over 2.6 million subscribers --and has tallied over 365 million hits."  She dances as she plays the violin.  She was all over the stage as she played beautifully.  She has performed with the Piano Guys and Alex Boye.  Most of the pieces performed received standing ovations.  They performed on Friday and Saturday evening and the conference center was full both evenings.  It holds 21,000 people.  The performance was provided free by the church but you had to order tickets in advance.  I am in awe of all the choice opportunities I have had since coming here on my mission. My favorite piece of the evening was the last number performed with the choir, the Orchestra at Temple Square and both Nathan and Lindsey had parts.  It was "Come, Thou Fount of Every Blessing" which is one of my all time favorites.  There was an immediate standing ovation at the end.

We continue to be very busy at work.  We were given the following statistics the other day.  For the whole year of 2012 our zone processed 10,000 cases.  So far this year - from January to the end of June we processed 33,000 cases.  Yes, we are kept very busy.  I feel that I am contributing a lot to the work.

On Monday our zone had a potluck lunch.  You know the adage of "all work and no play... "  Well, we know how to play, too.  It is a good way for missionaries and staff to talk, eat and get to know each other.

On Tuesday evening my Social Group had an activity.  We had a potato bar in the recreation room of one of the couple's apartment building.  It was good food and even better conversation.  After the meal the group went to a free concert in the park.

On Wednesday I meet Elder and Sister Givens at the Family History Library.  I brought my computer and Elder Givens loaded Root Magic on it and then loaded two files for me.  My PAF file and my Family Tree Maker file.  Soon PAF is going away--the church will lay it to rest in favor of FamilySearch and Family Tree.  I will use Roots Magic for my personal records because other people  have the options to make changes on my Family Tree records.  Roots Magic is authorized by the church to sinc with FamilySearch.  It seems very user friendly and the manual is easy to read and use.  Now I have a lot of work cleaning up my own records before I go out on the Internet looking for more information on my ancestors.  I have over 1,000 names on my personal files.  Glad Robb, Reanna and other of my children are working on our history, too.

On Friday I was assigned to give the spiritual thought for our zone prayer meeting.  With the assignment you also get to choose the hymn to get us moving for the day.  I chose "The Lord has need of Willing Men"  or "Put your Shoulder to the Wheel."  My talk was on assignments in the church and that we should willingly accept opportunities to serve.  I couldn't possibly list here how blessed I have been over the last 37 years for my willingness to accept callings.  For example, this calling to serve in the Church and Family History Headquarters Mission.  You have read many of my blessings since I came to Salt Lake City and it seems like the windows of heaven have opened to pour me out blessings and the windows are wide open.  I love you all and I pray the Lord's richest blessings on you and yours.  Love, Sister Winkie


Sunday, July 14, 2013

My great grandson, Ivan
Looking up at the Christus in the Visitors Center
I know...I know that it has been two weeks since I have written.  I offer no excuses but just like you, my life is very full with so many things to do.  Once again it has been a momentous two weeks.  My second born grandchild, Michael Ivan, son of my son, Wade, visited me for the 4th of July.  Michael is a Marine and is stationed at Twenty Nine Palms, California.   Michael brought his new bride, Vicky (married the 11th of May) and his son, Ivan.  They drove all night (9 hours) from Las Vegas and arrived about 7:30 AM on the 4th.  I was given the joy and privileged to care for Ivan for a few hours to allow Michael and Vicky to check into the hotel and get a few hours of sleep.  Ivan is three and one half and full of life and curiosity.  We played with magnets, read books, and I down loaded a few small children's apps on my Ipad so we could play together.  His laugh, which was often, was infectious and I haven't laughed so much in a long time.  For a long time I had been missing being around children.  We have no primary or youth programs in our branch.  That is why we are a branch even though we are big enough to be a ward.  I had my Scriptures on the coffee table with a sheet of paper in it with a check-list for daily reading.  He found the list and called it his schedule and he grabbed it and took to the table and said "great-grandma Winkie sit with me and let's do our schedule."  He then proceeded to scribble all over it on both sides.  Since he has left I made a short note on the paper with his name and date.  This paper will be saved in my memory file.  He surely is a special child of our Heavenly Father.

Michael and Vicky took me to the Olive Garden for a wonderful dinner on Friday (left overs fed me the next day) and on the way home (back to my apartment) I was sitting with Michael in the front and Ivan was in the back with Vicky.  All of a sudden I overheard the following from the backseat.  "and a monster came from the dark and ate me like a delicious Popsicle."  It just slipped out of his toddler mouth like he was an accomplished author.  I couldn't help but laugh out-loud.  His father was much more discreet as I witnessed him cover his mouth from a laugh.  What a precious little boy.

Once Michael and Vicky were refreshed from their nap on the 4th we drove to Alpine, Utah to my brother's home.  They had put together a family cook-out with all the must have foods for the 4th.  You know, corn on the cob, hamburgs and watermelon!  After the meal we all retired to sit outside by the pool.  The only people there were Art and his wife, Maurine, and their children.  Of course Tyler was there with his new bride.  Please see earlier blog for pictures from their wedding in May.  It made a nice family gathering with me, Michael and his little family.  This was the first time Michael had met his great-uncle.  We had a great time visiting and watching Ivan and Emily in the swimming pool.  Michael had a bathing suit and swim vest in the car for Ivan so of course he wanted to get in the water.  Ivan had just completed swimming lessons for toddlers and he had absolutely no fear of water or anything.  He jumped off the diving board and slid down the slide.  Good thing he had the vest on. Emily (Art and Maurine's 15 year old daughter) was wonderful with him and they seemed to have a lot of fun.  I know it was fun for me to watch.  In my younger days you couldn't keep me out of the water and in fact my mom had a rough time getting me to come out of the water once I was in.  I remember saying to her more than once "Come in and get me."  At that time I was probably swimming in Keuka Lake (New York) where my grandparents had a small cottage.

Once it was almost dark we loaded up in the cars and Art led us up the hills by his home to a place looking over the valley.  He unloaded chairs for all of us and we watched a beautiful fireworks display across the valley at Thanksgiving Point.  It was made even more special because there was lightening on the mountains behind the fireworks.  It was a perfect day.  I will long remember the peace and contentment.

Throughout the two days with my grandson I was impressed by his love, patience and parenting skills toward his son.  He is divorced from Ivan's mother and each share custody.  Vicky is a great mother to Ivan and the young parents seem to be on the same page in parenting styles.  In another life (as a social worker) I was a parenting facilitator and taught individual and group parenting classes.  Because of that I can't help observe interactions between parents and children.  I was happy to see that Michael is so much like his father and is a devoted parent.

On Friday I had to work in the morning so Michael and family met me by the Joseph Smith Memorial Building at noon and I gave him a tour of my office and desk.  He took pictures from the 6th floor that overlooks the temple.  We then went to the Mezzanine floor to see and experience the ambiance in the beautiful chapel where I attend my Sunday meetings.  I took pictures of them standing at the podium.  From there we went to the main level to see the movie about the restoration in the Legacy Theater.  Even though I have seen it several times it still touches my heart.  The Family Search Area on first floor has a facade of English River Port made to look how it may have looked when people/families left from when coming to America.  There is a special camera set up there where families can have their picture taken and then type in an email address and it is sent directing to them.  It was emailed to Michael and he, in turn sent it on to me.

By now everyone was starving so we purchased lunch and took it outside to sit on the patio in Temple Square.  Sister McKnight had one of her son's and his family visiting for the holiday and they were in the area so they came over for introductions.  After a short chat we each went on with our day separately.  Michael, Vicky, Ivan and I then did all the Temple Square buildings.  We toured the Tabernacle, the Assembly hall and the two visitor centers.  Vicky asked lots of questions and Michael surprised me by being able to answer most of them.  He isn't a member of my church but he was exposed to it often during his growing up years.  We had a wonderful time wandering around and taking pictures and talking.  At the end of the day we went to dinner and then back to my apartment and some last minute conversation and final play with Ivan.  I sure got attached to the little guy fast and I will miss them all a lot.  They told me they had such a nice visit that they may come back to see the Christmas lights on Temple Square in December.




This past Friday Stephanie Phippen Cooper came back to Salt Lake City for a couple of days and left her children at her sister's home and the older ones went with friends to Lagoon - a theme park for the day.  Stephanie picked me up at work and we had lunch then went to the West Jordan Temple for a session.  We actually sat in the Celestial Room and shared spiritual experiences for an hour.  We were amazed when we looked at our watches.  How quickly the time went by.  She and I never run out of things to say.  We also shared many funny stories and laughed a lot.  I am sure she and I were friends long before we were born on this earth.

As this is July with the 4th and for Utahans/Latter-day Saints - Pioneer day celebrating the  July 24th (1847) arrival of the Saints to the Salt Lake Valley.  There are a lot of special activities going on.  Saturday night there was a Days of '47 Pops Concert with the Choral Arts Society of Utah, the American Heritage Lyceum Philharmonic and featuring Jenny Oaks Baker (world renown violin soloist) and George Dyer (Opera singer and also performer at Branson.  The Philharmonic were award winning students from all over Utah.  The youngest was only 11.  My oh my the talent of this combined ensemble.  There was also a surprise visit from "Abraham Lincoln" where he recited the Gettysburg Address.  Every piece was so much different from the other. It was held at the Abravanel Hall in Salt Lake City.  It was free but very difficult to get tickets.  One of the missionaries in my zone obtained some tickets and four of us sisters went together.  It started to pour as we were leaving our apartment and we had to walk.  It was an umbrella brigade.  Of course it stopped about two minutes after we got in the door.  What a concert!  I made a note in my planner to order tickets early next year.

One more thing I wanted to share on this week's blog is that on July 1, 2013 we experienced our first Monday devotional with our new Mission Presidency.  Among other Hymns we sang "The Battle Hymn of the Republic."  It sounded so powerful as about 1000 missionaries sang it.  Afterward President Dewey referred to the hymn's  phrase "He has sounded forth the trumpet that shall never call retreat."  Ponder that for awhile.  I love the Lord, I love this mission, I love my fellow missionaries, I love this work and I know it is true.  Last of all I love you dear readers.  You make my life so full and rich. Good night until next time.  Oh, to comment you can leave me a message on Facebook or write to me by email at bjwinkie@gmail.com.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Poster my sister, Liz Barto, sent me for the Rochester, NY
annual Lilac Festival

I am using this photo for the week as I love this poster my sister sent me and I framed it to hang in my kitchen.  I love Rochester, the Festival, and lilacs but I love my sister so much more.  Thank you Liz.

June 17th  The most important thing that happened today was that my wonderful granddaughter, Jessica Winkie Coppola and her husband, Kyle, had their son, Kai Joseph.  He is beautiful, healthy and a joy to his parents and the rest of the family.  Jess doesn't realize it but Kai was born on her great grandma Winkie's (Don's mother, Mary) birthday.  Mary Winkie died on the day that would have been Don's and my 50th anniversary.

Monday's always begin with a special 7:30 AM devotional and today was no exception.  The two counselors to Mission President, Wayne Peterson, and the wives spoke to us today.  They are President Sessions and President Eckle.  What you may not understand is that President Sessions and President Eckle put in their mission applications and waited to receive letters in the mail to where they were going to serve.  Each, of course, were called to serve in this mission.  They arrived in Salt Lake City, same as I, and went through the 2 weeks in the Training Zone and then were assigned a zone to serve in.  From the ranks of the full time missionary couples, President Peterson prayerfully asked to call them to assist him in this great work.  All 6 of these great people served the Church and Family History Headquarters mission well.  We will all miss them very much and I enjoyed their last remarks to the missionaries.

My Monday special project I do for Data Quality Zone was double what it usually is so it kept me busy for the entire day and will probably last most of tomorrow to complete.

After work today I went to Winco shopping with two of my "sister" friends.  We always enjoy our trips together.  Winco is a neat huge store and they sell bulk items as well as a great variety of other things at very reasonable prices.

June 18th  I finished up my Monday project about 3 and then finished the day working my other stuff.  I felt very blessed to have the abilities needed to fulfill these responsibilities.  The Lord certainly does bless me.  After work I came home and ate some supper and then 4 of my friends came over with a movie called "The Testaments" that T. C. Christiansen did.  Unfortunately the DVD didn't play in my player so we finally found something we agreed on to substitute.  Of course, they all brought snacks, good humor and fellowship.  It was a very nice evening.

June 19th Today was a wonderful day.  My Zone leader, Elder Roberts from Iowa, arranged for our zone to have a special morning in the temple.  We all gathered, dressed in our white temple clothes, in the first floor chapel at nine for a devotional.  Elder Heaton gave a beautiful prayer and then Elder Givens spoke.  Both brothers are from my zone and both couples will be leaving soon.  Elder Givens spoke of a 40 year search for an ancestor that he recently found and was completing his temple work today.  We were blessed then to hear from Elder and Sister Edwards who are counselor and assistant to the Temple President and his wife.  President Edwards quoted scripture and said among many wonderful things that "the temple was a place of truth and light."  I testify that that is true.  I always feel enlightened when I leave the temple.  After the devotional we went to a 10:00 session and then met in the temple cafeteria for lunch.  Two of the FamilySearch staff were with us today in the temple.  This day was a very special experience and makes for a stronger bond between us all who work so closely together each day.

After work I went back to the temple with my friend, Sister Ginger McKnight, to participate in a sealing session.  How cool is that, being able to go to the temple twice in one day.  Our Branch organizes Elders and Sisters from the Branch to go to do sealings every Wednesday and I go almost every Wednesday.  We usually have enough people to utilize three sealing rooms.

20th  Yesterday afternoon Sister Roberts told me someone was trying to reach me and gave me a number to call to find out more.  When I tried the number multiple times no one answered.  Today Elder Roberts found me and gave me a sticky note to call Roger Cluff and the number.  That is who had been trying to reach me the day before.  Roger and Beth Cluff were dear friends to Don and I and our children back when we lived in Las Cruces, New Mexico.  At one time he had been our Bishop.  They are the sweetest, gentlest and kindest people I have ever met.  They moved to Utah a few years back to be near a daughter.  I have kept up with them over the years by exchanging Christmas cards.  Well, I called Roger and Beth and I made arrangements to call them back when I could figure out when I could visit them.  They live in Cedar Hills, Utah south of SLC about and hour's drive.  After I got home from work I called Sister McKnight to see if she was up to a drive to Cedar Hills.  She was and off we went into rush hour traffic.  We arrived at the Cluff's about 5:45PM.  Roger and Beth were waiting for us.  We had such a nice visit reminiscing about the old days in Las Cruces but did mostly talk about family.  Beth thought of everything and served us a dinner of New Mexico green enchiladas with chocolate brownies and ice cream for dessert.  I hated to leave as we had such a nice visit.  We didn't get home until 10.  Sister McKnight always fits right in and is a fun companion to hang around with.  I think I will be lost when she goes home in January.

21st  Today was my T&R day or full day off.  I could sleep in (which I didn't) and do whatever needed to be done.  It is also time for temple and family history research.  Since I went to the temple 2 times on Wednesday I didn't go today.  Sister McKnight got off at eleven for the day so we met up after lunch and went and did errands.  At six I went to a zone pot luck farewell for the Givens.  It was nice because nothing was planned but to sit around and talk.  We had three round tables just singing away with conversation.  We all love each other and get along so well.

22nd   Saturday morning and I had visitors that used to live in Missouri and were in my branch.  Their brother is still in the Chillicothe branch.  He is Cheston Seamons.  Theresa and I were Cheston's wife's visiting teachers for years.  We also visited his sisters.  They are Miney Bell and Luanna Gaylord.  Well,  Miney and Luanna visited me at my apartment and then they took me out to lunch to KFC.  To all who know me well, KFC is my ultimate comfort food.  My children bought several buckets after Don's death.  We laughed a lot and had a really good time.  Miney and I are planning a temple visit soon.  Luanna has a lot of health problems so I don't know if she will go, too.  When I visited Miney in Missouri she had a huge black snake.  I can't remember the name  but it scared me.  It slithered all over the house and Miney loved it.  They invited me to go to their ward with them some time and I think I will. Hope to see them soon.
After they dropped me off at home I went and did the laundry.  What fun!  I dislike the laundromat. The rest of the day I worked on family history from home.  I found an amazing "tree" on Ancestry.com that had Don's Dutch ancesters on it.  I called son, Robb, and told him about it.  I told him it was a huge family tree and perhaps it would help him in his research on his father's side of the family.  He will check it out.

23rd  Well today was quite a busy day.  Attended Relief Society, Sunday School and Sacrament Meeting in our chapel then we raced to the stake center for a World Wide Leadership Broadcast from BYU for missionaries and mission work.  It was great!  If you have the time it would be so worth it for you to listen to this broadcast.  I am sure it will be available somewhere.  Perhaps check on LDS.Org.  So three hours at church, two for the broadcast and that wasn't enough for us.  We then walked to the Assemly Hall to hear Susan Easton Black Durrant speak on the martyrdom of the prophet Joseph Smith.  She just retired from teaching for 45 years at Brigham Young University.  She taught history and is an expert on Joseph Smith.  She has written or been apart of writing about 130 books and numerous articles.  She has spoken in all fifty states and in many places in the world.  He husband, Elder Black, died about the same time Don did and she has now remarried George Durrant.  Sister Durrant spoke of the few days leading up to the day Joseph Smith was killed by a mob with black stuff on their faces.  She started with the 22nd of June and went to the day of the martyrdom which was the 27th of June.  The anniversary is only a few days away.  Elder and Sister Durrant have recently received a mission call to serve in Nauvoo, Illinois.  Lucky for Nauvoo and all their visitors.

Susan Easton Black Durrant
In the Assembly Hall after her lecture



Sunday, June 16, 2013

Yours truly outside a teepee at Soldiers Hollow
10th of June  Began day with our 7:30 AM Mission Devotional.  Everything went smoothly for the opening announcements, welcome of new Missionaries, opening hymn and opening prayer.  President Peterson announced the speakers (those asked to give their 3-minute biographies and the first speaker began.  Sister Watson is one of my close friends and I knew she was anxious over standing up in front of all those people and speaking.  She was glad she was first to get it over with.  She was about 30 seconds into her talk when a weird alarm sounded and it went on for a few seconds and then a voice said there was an emergency and we all needed to quickly evacuate the building.  Everyone is looking around and really aren't sure what is going on.  It took a bit for the brain to process but then we filed quite calmly to the stairs and started down and out.  The voice told us not to use the elevator and we were on the 6th floor.  Mind you there were over 1,000 people, most elderly and some in wheel chairs and walkers.  They asked the few young elders to carry people in wheel chairs down.  There are two sets of stairs and it was all very calm and orderly.

We had only been outside a few minutes and we were told it was ok to go back in.  So in we went and up to the chapel and to the same seats we had been in prior to the siren.  Sister Watson went to the stand and said "Now, where was I?"  She picked up where she let off and the rest of the program went on without a hitch.  Oh, by the way on the first floor is the Nauvoo Cafe and they had burned the bacon and it caused the alarm to go off.  It smelled around the building downstairs for awhile.  That was an exciting start to the day and at least we had a calm fire drill.  The rest of the work day went smoothly thereafter.  I ate lunch with Elder and Sister Watson in the cafeteria of the Church Office Building.

After work I had to rush home to make a carry in dish for a pot luck Aloha Dinner to welcome the new missionaries and to sing good bye to the ones that are leaving.  We do an Aloha Dinner every other month.  It is bitter sweet.  My zone is loosing 3 couples and one single sister.  We will miss them so much.  We also were saying good-bye to our mission presidency.

We had a special treat for the entertainment this evening.  We were delighted to welcome Janice Kapp Perry and Brother Doug Perry.  What a treat that was.  She has 10 songs in the Children's Song Book and we sang about half of them with her.  Such fun!  The Spirit was so strong to have over 500 people sing "As Sister's in Zion" with her.  Afterward she signed the song sheets for those who desired (I did) and even posed for pictures.  Sister Perry played and sang a song she wrote and recorded with her whole family.  Even grandchildren.  It was called the Perry Family Song.  It was wonderful and so entertaining.  She then sang the song she wrote for her husband for their 55th anniversary.  We all felt privileged to hear it.

While at work today I received a phone call from Diane Clawson.  She is someone from our distant past.  She came to Germany with her brand new husband and Don and I picked them up at the airport.  We met Dave when we first joined the Church in Germany.  He flew home to marry and bring his bride back with him.  Dave died a few years ago but I always kept in touch with her at Christmas.  Well, today I learn she works just across the street from where I work.  She is coming to meet me on the 6th floor and I will take her on a tour of where I work and then we will go for lunch.  I can't wait to see her.

I told President Peterson about Daniel's mission call tonight and he gave me permission to see him but he said it will be up to Daniel's mission president whether I see him after he leaves the MTC.

11 June  The morning went on as usual with 8 AM prayer meeting and work at my desk.  At 11:30 I met my home/visiting teachers for lunch in the lower level of the building.  We had a nice chat about our missions, life and our families.  The home teaching lesson was from a talking in the Ensign by President Uchtdorf called "Walking in Circles."  Because I didn't have an Ensign he gave me his copy.  Elder Schannaveldt said he could easily get another.  After finishing work for the day I had my "4 month into my mission" interview with President Eckel down in the Mission Conference Room.  The interview was very pleasant with President and Sister Eckel and with the new counselor (To formally begin on July 1st) President and Sister Dewey.  The Eckels are training the Deweys for the new calling.  All were kind and truly interested in me and my life.

After the interview I walked home and did the mundane things of life.  You know...I cooked dinner (stuffed green pepper) did the dishes and vacuumed the apartment.  I then read for awhile until I began to doze on the sofa... so I went to bed at 9:30.  Amazingly I slept straight through the night.

12 June  My, My...did the staff in Data Quality ever surprise us missionaries today.  As it turned out it was their Missionary Appreciation Day and it went on for the entire day.  It began when we entered through our locked doors at the west end of the Joseph Smith Memorial Building.  There was a huge sign telling us it was the Happiest Zone on the Earth.  We then went to our desks and everyone's area was decorated with crepe paper, balloons, and confetti.  We each had a lime green rubber bracelet with a poem attached to it with a ribbon.  There was a neat coupon for free admitance to a lunch hour movie and treat.  We all went to prayer meeting at 8 and all the staff were there.  We usually have one or two for announcements but today they were all there.  Men and women.  After the prayers they all left the room  and immediately they came back and proceeded to pile all kinds of food on the big conference table.  There were several platters of donuts, bags of all kinds of bagels, platters of fresh strawberries, watermelon, grapes etc.  Several kinds of cream cheese and jams, milk and two kinds of juice.  They thought of everything.  After we enjoyed this breakfast they had two games for us where we had to look for things around our unit and part of a unit on the 5th floor.  There was a treat for each of us as we finished.  Some time during the morning someone came through with a cellophane bag with candies.  By the way the theme throughout was Disney characters.  One of the games was that we had to find the "Golden Mickey Mouses."  At noon we went to a conference room for a movie and to eat our lunches.  The movie was an old Mickey Mouse movie and we were all given a sucker like treat made from an oreo cookie to look like Mickey on a stick.  So cute!

We were then told to go to a specific room on the mezzanine at 2:30.  All day we continued to try and get some real work done at our desks.  We all were so diligent!  About 2:25 we turned off our computers for the day and went downstairs.  When we went into the room they had round tables and chairs arranged and at the long buffet table they had artfully arranged plates and platters of all varieties of cupcakes without frosting.  There were 5 or 6 containers of different frosting and bowls and bowls of different candies and stuff to decorate the cupcakes with.  The young elders really loved this.  At the end of the tables were tall glasses with sherbet and Sprite floats.  After we played, talked and ate we played a game.  One of the staff designed a Jeopardy game with categories that pertained to our work.  The answers all had to do with Disney characters and movies.  Angela was really cleaver in how she did the game.  Very talented.  At the end our units manager, Shon, gave a little speech and told us how much they loved us and how grateful they were to have us work with them.  He then gave each of us beautiful certificates that looked professionally printed.  Some beautiful memories were made today.  We will long remember being so loved and appreciated.  We were then dismissed early to go home and were told not to help at all with the clean-up.  I went down to the front lobby and sat near the grand piano and listened to a brother about my age play a variety of pieces.  He was very nice and he and I talked when he wasn't playing.  He had served a mission many years ago in southern Germany so we talked about our love of Germany.  I then left him to meet some friends and go to the temple.  It was a wonderful day.  If you think today was great wait til after I live tomorrow and write about it.  It promises to be full and entertaining, too.  I feel so spoiled and blessed.  Good nite!

13 June 13  Well hi this evening.  I just got home from another great fireside at the Assembly Hall but before I tell you about that I want to tell you about the "Lunch and Learn" held in the auditorium at the Church Office Building.  The guest speaker was T.C. Christiansen who was the producer and director of "Ephraim's Rescue" and "17 Miracles" and many many more LDS and non LDS productions. He showed us clips from Ephraim's Rescue and then told us the rest of the story.  It was so interesting.  A couple of the clips I even cried in ... again even though I had seen the movie.  I won't spoil the movie for you just know that you need to see it.  Brother Christiansen answered questions from the audience for the last 8 minutes.  At the very end he asked the audience to stand if they were descended from any of the hand cart pioneers or the rescuers.  Fully a third of the audience stood up.  He then said that could be one of the reasons the pioneers suffered was to raise a large posterity who were firmly rooted in the gospel and the church.  Those pioneers were not alone.  They had lots of help from Legions of angels and the Spirit of the Lord.

The lecture at the Assembly Hall was called "My Mother was Always Praying: Latter-day Saint Women in East Germany during World War II."  The entire talk was vignettes about various members of the church in Germany during the war.  Real stories that were gleaned from research done over several years by professors and students at BYU.  They published a book called "In Harm's Way" as a result of their work.  These women had to hold there families together when they men were called off to war.  There was so much tragedy, deprivation and hunger and they kept praying, listening to the spirit and moving on.  They were survivors.  Between these two groups of people I was given a lot of food for thought and example and I continue to "plow" through my own life.  I am soooo grateful to have lived when I am living and so blessed to have found the church over 37 years ago.  With my understanding of Heavenly Father's plan I can accept Don's death and know that he and I and all of our children will be together in Heaven.  That is what held the pioneers together and was the force behind the German Saints.  That knowledge fortifies us all.  I consider myself a German Saint as we were baptized in Germany and I have German Ancestry.  I pray that I can leave a legacy of faith, courage and love for my posterity.

14 June  Started day with 8 AM prayer meeting then worked at computer until noon.  At 12 I went out to the elevators and waited for my special visitor.  36 years ago in Germany Diane and Dave Clawson were in our ward.  They were a young couple then and had their first baby born in Germany.  We had kept in touch with each other over the years on Christmas and other times of the year.  Dave passed away about 11 years ago and Diane began working in downtown SLC.  She called me the other day and we decided to meet and go to lunch.  I toured her through my zone's end of the Joseph Smith Memorial Building and then we ate at the restaurant in the lobby level.  We then walked over to the building where she works on the 8th floor.  She has beautiful views of the mountains from the windows.  I told her I must come back someday with my camera.

After we said good-bye for now I walked over to the Family History Library and did some research for a few hours.  Went home for some supper and talked with Kris and Robb on the phone and then I went with some friends to a concert in the park.  The park was the Brigham Young Historic park and the music was provided by a Marine Corp Band made up of men and women of the Marine National Guard.  During a chat with a flute/picalo player I learn that all but two of the band members were LDS.  She was a wife and mother of two who has been in the National Guard for 17 years.  As today was Flag Day the majority of the pieces they played were Patriotic in nature.  It was fabulous!  So many feet going in time with the music was fun to do and to watch others.  They played a medley of the songs of the five branches of the service.  The band leader requested those in the audience that were in that branch or had a loved one in that branch to stand up when that branches song was played.  I could have stood with them all: Don, of course, was in the Army but I have a step-son that was in the Coast Guard; a son in Army National Guard; son in Air Force National Guard; son with 17 years of active duty Army; 3 grandsons and grand-son-in-law Army; grandson Marines; brother, two brothers-in-law, and two nephews in the Navy.  My Father also served in the Army.  I am very proud and grateful for all the years of service my loved ones have given to our country.  It was a tender Mercy when I felt my phone vibrate during the second last branch's song. I answered it because it was my son, Wade, calling.  I said to him "Just listen, Wade, I am at a concert in the park and they are honoring the military and the next song with be for the Army.  He was listening to it and I was proudly standing with my son and for my husband and other loved ones.  It was a special moment for me.  The timing couldn't have been better and incidentally, Wade was serving his two weeks of drill for the year.

My phone just rang and Sister McKnight and I have been invited to a special shindig tomorrow.  I will tell you all about it tomorrow night.  I have already set my camera out and will post pictures from it.  Saturday may prove to be very interesting.  Good night for now.

15 June  Got up early to leave for a special outing with three other sisters.  Sister Bignell  is one of my trainers in the zone and her friend, Sister Wooley, are from Austrailia.  We went to the Heber Valley near Midway and to Soldiers Hollow where there was a big Native American Pow Wow.  The various Native American tribes were competing in dance, music and singing.  It was by age categories.  The young girls were called granddaughters and the boys grandsons but all the ages were represented.  The costumes were outstanding and I took lots of pictures and ate some great food.  I had Indian frybread and hot roasted corn on the cob.  They were delicious.  We were very hot and tired when we got home but were so glad that Sister Bignell invited us.  I will post some pictures here.

16 June  This was a quiet day.  Puttered around the apartment this morning and read all my lessons.  Went to church for 1-4 and then walked home with friends.  I had four sisters come over this evening and watched a movie.  The plan was to watch "The Testaments" but the DVD wouldn't work so we quickly choose something else.  Had a nice evening and chatted some afterward.  Early to bed tonight as we have to be in the Chapel by 7:30 AM for Devotional.  This has been a very busy week.  I don't think next week will be so full.  Love you all and this work is going along great.  We all love our mission.  Only two weeks until we say good-bye to our awesome Mission President...Wayne Peterson.











Sunday, June 9, 2013

This is the corner by my desk
Note the farm picture and picture of my family
I am posting this announcement right at the top although I didn't learn about Daniel's mission call until early Saturday morning.  He received his mission letter on Friday while he was at work and his dad took it to him at Chic-Fil-A.  He opened it there but he worked til closing so it was too late to call me when he got home.  Daniel Deon Winkie, son of Robb and Theresa Winkie is going to serve in the Provo, Utah Mission.  Isn't that cool.  He will not be too far from gramma.  I am so proud of him.  He will serve for two years and it will be a great adventure for him.  I guess the Lord wanted us Winkies in Utah.  Robb served his mission in the Salt Lake City North Mission.  Congratulations Daniel.

June 4th ---I am going to try something different for this blog and see how it works.  When something special or interesting occurs I will blog about it that day.  Today I walked part way to work with a Sister McKay who lives near me and works on the same floor I do in the Joseph Smith Memorial Building.  As we walked I got to know a little about Sister McKay.  She said she walks slow but she gets there.  She has been out on her mission for 20 months and doesn't go home until February of 2014.  She has extended a couple of times.  Sounds dedicated doesn't it?  When that is just the tip of the ice berg.  This is her 6th mission.  She served 3 with her husband of 60 years.  He died of a terrible cancer in 2000.  One of the missions was in Singapore.  She does live about an hour from here and her children come for her and bring her back so she can spend weekends at home.  Remarkable, huh?  Lastly, I asked her how old she was.  I was shocked to hear she was 86 years old.  I should look and do so good at 86.  I am proud to know her.  What an example!  My hat is off to you, Sister McKay.

Tomorrow we are having a special noon devotional with Elders Richard G. Scott and David Bednar.  They are the apostles over Family History.  They will speak to all the missionaries in my mission in our Chapel.  They then will introduce us to our incoming mission presidency.  President Peterson and his counselors leave next month.  We are all excited to learn who they will be and how the change will affect us.

I am going to the temple tomorrow night to a sealing session.  Our mission does the 5:00 Sealing session every Wednesday.  We usually have enough for three sealing rooms.  I have been many times since I came to Salt Lake City.  So you can see that tomorrow will be a full day.  On top of that I will work about 7 hours at my computer.

June 5th ---Special noon devotional in the Chapel at the Joseph Smith Memorial Building.  Elder Richard G Scott was presiding and mission President Wayne Peterson was conducting.  Also present were David A Bednar (Apostle), Paul E Koelliker, Marcus B Nash, Allan F Packer (all three from the First Quorum of the Seventy) and Bradley D Foster (2nd Quorum of the Seventy). These very busy brethren were present as they hold church assignments to Church and Family History.  I had a perfect view to see all the general authorities as I sat in the 3rd row on the left side of the chapel.  We opened by singing "Because I've Been Given Much" and all the general authorities sang from memory.  Elder Allan Packer conducted the business of telling us who our new mission presidency were.  He said we are making history here today and it was filmed.  Our new Mission President is a 70 and is H. Ross Workman and his wife Kathleen.  He presided over the Hawaii Temple from 2007-2012 and also was a former mission president in Hawaii.  His new counselors are: Dale Dewey and Glenn Johns.  I know the Deweys as they are in my activity group.  We were informed that as of today we had 1157 missionaries in our mission.  President and Sister Peterson spoke to us and then President and Sister Workman each bore their testimonies.  We then were privileged to hear from Elder Bednar who stressed that everything about our Church is Heart and Ordinances. He said this at least 4 times.  "Hearts that are changed...mighty changes as it turns to the fathers."  He told us that since the October announcement that lowered the age for young people to serve missions they have processed/assigned 40,000 young missionaries.  Elder Bednar quoted the following: "When the dark is the darkest the light shines the brightest."

Elder Scott then spoke to us.  He began with the following:  "I'd like to tell you a secret."  If you want to wake up every morning with a smile on your face before you go to been put a coat hanger in your mouth."  Everyone roared.  We all love him so much.  What a sweet man.  He thanked us for our willingness for "this essential work of the Lord Jesus Christ."  "This is a particularly important part of the Lord's work.  This is fundamental to His work.  Elder Scott then invoked an Apostolic Blessing on us that as we pray, study and learn we will have what we need.  Thank you and we love you."  Then President Sessions of the old mission presidency said the closing prayer and it was over except for the warm feelings we all had.  Back to work we all went knowing that the work we all do is important to the Lord and His plan.

In the evening I attended a temple session with friends from my branch.  It was a very nice sealing session.

6th June.  I went to prayer meeting as usual and worked a full day.  It is a beautiful day and the walk home was nice.  Many, many people on Temple Square today.

7th June   Today was 1/2 day for all missionaries in my zone.  Three friends and I went to see the new movie, "Ephraim's Rescue"  by the same director/producer who did "17 Miracles."  I loved 17 Miracles but Brother Christiansen really outdid himself with "Ephraim's Rescue."  It is a tear jerker and you will need kleenex but it is so worth the tears.  It is a true story of the rescue of the Martin Handcart pioneers and the heros and heroines who were on this trek.  I will certainly buy the DVD when it comes out.  After the movie the other sisters and I went out to eat to celebrate two of them having a birthday.  We elected to sit outside in the pedestrian mall of a outdoor shopping area.  We weren't seated 10 minutes when one of the sisters spied a couple she knew from home.  She jumped up and ran to them and was so happy to see them.  eventually they came to our table and we were introduced.  The man is her Bishop from back home.  They were in Salt Lake City for only two days (came from Southern California) and she got to visit with them.  This is a wonderful example of a tender mercy.  If we had dined inside or choose another restaurant or whatever she would have not spied them.  Even is she had chosen a different chair she wouldn't have seen them.   The Lord knows are every need and He really knows how to plan ahead.  What a wonderful birthday present for Sister Binkhurst.  By the way, Brother T C Christiansen is speaking at a noon devotional next thursday.  You can be sure I will be attending.  So many amazing opportunities here in Salt Lake City!

8th June   Of course today was a Saturday so I was at the laundry room at 7:05 AM to do my  loads of laundry and there was only one free washer.  The sign says not to use facility until  7:00 but I guess others were in a hurry.  About 2.5 hours later I was finished with that chore for another week.  I did some clean up at the apartment and then two other sisters and I went to Walmart and Winco.  Winco is a great huge store that sells products at a great price.  They also have great produce and bulk items.  We did our weekly grocery shopping.  We each went home to put away things and eat supper and then reconvened at my apartment for one of the sisters to cut our hair.

9th of June  Sunday   Church was awesome today. the teachers for Relief Society really taught great lessons.  I had prepared to be spiritually fed by reading my lessons ahead of time and it was well worth the effort.  For Sacrament Meeting our outgoing Mission President and his wife spoke.  They both spoke some about their experience of being the Temple President and Matron of the Nauvoo Temple.  President Peterson told of the history of the first Nauvoo Temple and how it was  destroyed by early persecutors of the church.  He then gave a very interesting timeline and process that led to the rebuilding the Nauvoo Temple.  I was fascinated.  I learn a lot I didn't know.  I was especially interested in this temple as I worked as a volunteer two days during the open house.

I was asked to attend a Fireside/play tonight in West Jordan at the Hale Theater.  It is theater in the round.  There were four of us that went together.  The play was funny, entertaining and a learning experience.  It was called "Are there Meadowlarks Still Singing?"  It was a very enjoyable evening and now I am ending my day and week finishing up my blog.  I hope and pray you all have had a wonderful and interesting week.  Please write and tell me how your doing.  I pray for you all and miss you but I love my mission and that this is where the Lord needs me at this time.


This is my home away from home here on my Mission
photo on the easel is Alex winking at me!


Sunday, June 2, 2013


The desert blooming between Conference Center and home
Reminded me of  New Mexico
Today at church we sang “Come Follow me” as the closing hymn.  President Klopfer, who was conducting, told the congregation that this hymn was President Packer’s favorite hymn.  The words are as follows: 
"Come, follow me," the Savior said.
Then let us in this footsteps tread,                  
For thus alone can we be one
With God's own loved, begotten Son.

"Come, follow me," a simple phrase,
Yet truth's sublime, efullgent rays
Are in these simple words combined
To urge, inspire the human mind.

Is it enough alone to know
That we must follow him below,
While trav'ling thru this vale of tears?
No, this extends to holier spheres.

Not only shall we emulate
His course while in this earthly state,
But when we're freed from present cares,
If with our Lord we would be heirs.

We must the onward path pursue
As wider fields expand to view,
And follow him unceasingly,
Whate'er our lot or sphere may be.

For thrones, dominions, kingdoms, pow'rs,
And glory great and bliss are ours,
If we, throughout eternity,
Obey his words, "Come, follow me."

Text: John Nicholson, 1839-1909

I pray that I will forever be found “Following Him.”  I know I haven’t written in two weeks again.  I suppose that may be my habit from now on.  I really have been so busy with work and enjoying so many things going on here.
It was so nice yesterday to go to Brigham City (about an hour’s drive North of Salt Lake City).  We left here about 10 AM and didn’t get home until 10 PM.  Steve and Stacy Hansen, from Kansas City, were visiting Steve’s sister, Lori Gomez, and Lori’s family.  They had come for the high school graduation of Steve’s son.  I was invited to visit weeks ago by Lori.  They were wonderful hosts and we (Sister Mc Knight and I) had a very nice time.  Steve is my youngest son, Wade’s, best friend.  Long ago Don and I accepted Steve and Stacy as our family.  They just closed on the selling of their home and they are staying at my house until they close on their new house in Independence.  Their move into my house was very timely as Missouri has been getting a lot of rain and ground seepage has flooded the basement several times.  Seems they had to work two shop vacs overtime to suction the water up.  Wade is now digging a hole to install a sup pump system Don bought years ago but never got around to put in.

It is so sad that Francis Monson died almost two weeks ago.  Poor President Monson.  They were married for 64 happy years. I know the loneliness  he now feels.  On the morning of the funeral our zone was given  tickets for the funeral.  I was given one of them.  I attended with two other sisters.  As most of you know, it was a beautiful funeral with the Monson’s daughter, Ann Dibb, giving the eulogy.  Four of the granddaughters did a special musical number that I found very touching.  One sang and the other three played the piano, violin and harp.  They are very talented young ladies.  President Monson looked so tired and sad.  I felt so bad for him.


On this mission I don’t work in the family history library but all the senior missionaries are encouraged to work on their own personal history.  We are given three half days and one full day off a month and are expected to be involved with history research or going to the temple.  This week I resolved to work on my “Buckley” line.  This is my paternal grandmother’s line.  On Friday I typed in the husband and wife’s names with a + sign linking them and hit google.  I was amazed that a document was suggested and when I clicked on it I found a 8 page document with so much information.  I actually found 5 more female ancestors maiden names.  On one I went back two generations.  I was and am astonished.  I have a lot of work now to enter all this data in Family Tree.  This information takes me to middle 1700s and the names are all British Isles sounding names but so far all born in New York or New England.

This is the Place Monument
Sister McKnight went to "This is the Place Monument" on Memorial Day and had a KFC picnic.  You know that KFC is my ultimate comfort food.  There is a pioneer town there with many of the buildings relocated there from original locations around the state of Utah.  It is a neat place for families and they even have a petting farm animals area and a pony ride for the little ones.

These girls walked around
and sang pioneer songs


Pioneer Church
exact replica


Steve and Stacy took us to Promontory Summit where the Union Pacific and Central Pacific rails were joined with the Golden Spike.  It was very interesting.  It was a major event for the country and the church.  They railroad changed how the granite was hauled for the Salt Lake Temple.  It had taken 4 days and strong oxen to haul the granite to the temple site and soon they were able to haul the granite on railroad cars in a few hours.  Without the railroad it would have taken many more years than 40 to complete the temple.  

This video shows an exact replica of "Old 119" steam locomotive chugging along the track as they are putting it in a garage for the night.  This is a replica of the locomotive that came from the East I think.  They have a replica of the other locomotive, too and they do a reenactment several times a day.  We did not make it in time for the reenactment but timed it perfectly for the ending of the day.

We will be getting a new Mission Presidency in July.  I will be very sorry to see the Petersons, Eckels and Sessions leave.  They are very kind, sweet people.  On Wednesday we are having a special devotional and we will get to meet the new Mission President.  Things have really accelerated at work and we have been so busy.  All the zones feel the same urgency to get the work done.  I hope all of you are working on your own family history and enlisting all your family members.  Until next time I pray for you all and myself that the Lord watches over and keeps all of us safely in His capable hands.  Love, Sister Barbara Winkie